Category: Vent with V
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Sexy Intellectualism – Where the Fine, Intelligent Black Men?!
While I’ve worked in Special Education and I, currently, work in Higher Education, I don’t want to teach my man basic knowledge that we learned in college. The only teaching I want to do is when we’re cosplaying age-appropriate teacher and student. He has to earn a good grade in my class. I’ll be sure…
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Children Don’t Miss a Thing—Even When You Think They’re Not Watching
You can become the parent who says, “I wasn’t shown how to heal, but I’ll show my children that it’s possible.” You don’t need to have had a perfect upbringing. You need the courage to create a different one. Because healing isn’t just for you. It’s for every child watching you love, speak, cry, fight,…
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Baby Daddy, Baby Mama Drama. I Want NO Parts
Who doesn’t love a little baby daddy, baby mama drama? Me. As a dating woman, I want no parts of that drama. In this post, I vent about my dating non-negotiable of dating men with no children. While, I recognize healthy co-parenting relationships exist, my trust issues run too deep.
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What 23 Questions to Ask Yourself Before 2023
These 23 questions are from the Question Everything Card Game by Danielle Robay. What these questions accomplish is a deep reflection on where you are starting in the next year. While I am sharing my responses, I encourage you to journal these questions and answer them for yourself. What’s the bravest thing you did this…
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An Insomnia Success. Do you suffer too?
Learn how to use insomnia to your advantage by acknowledging the way you value your experience of time. It’s 5:00am and my alarm just went off. I’ve been up since 2:30am after falling asleep at 10:50pm. Another episode. Insomnia: 728 Veronica: 1 I always wake up in the middle of the night. I’m pretty sure…
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My Sisters Call Me an As$hole and…
My Sisters Victoria and Jazara are my girls I love my sisters with my whole life. They offer me a new perspective on life and I love watching them grow into their own being. They are the first children I impacted and now I am witnessing how my energy affected them – in good and…
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Do I write for you?
“I am writing for me,” I try to convince myself. “But why do you want you to see my writing? How could my writing be for me, too? These are two questions I straddle between on a daily basis. I like to think that I write for myself, but it doesn’t work that way. While,…
Veronica Speaks 