When Love Feels Like Labor: You’re Not Hard to Love, You’re Just Tired of Proving It
If you’ve ever felt like love is something you have to earn, this one’s for you.Too many women are exhausted—not from the demands of life, but from constantly proving their worth to people who never learned how to love well. In this blog post, we’re unpacking why love starts to feel like labor, what trauma…
Emotions Are Messengers, Not Masters
Just Because You Feel It Doesn’t Mean You Own It Hey boo, Let’s talk about that emotional rollercoaster you’ve been riding. You know the one. Up one minute, spiraling the next. Feeling everything. Overthinking everything. Let me remind you with love: you are not your emotions. They are messengers—not your truth, not your identity, and…
Stop Proving Your Peace to People
Your Healing Is Not Performance Art Hey love, Let me tell you something straight from my heart: healing is not performance art. Too many of us are out here trying to prove to folks—especially the ones who hurt us—that we’re “healed,” “better,” and “unbothered.” But that’s not healing, that’s theatre. And real healing? It’s messy,…
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